Here Together

HiπŸ‘‹, I'm Harout.

What if everything you're looking for, you already have?

Let's find out together.

Together in Knowing

If you're lucky, you've realized that no object or experience can provide the lasting happiness you long for.

Who This Is For

Anyone who feels a sincere pull to find lasting peace and happiness beyond circumstances.You're welcome regardless of which door you're walking in from.For some, that's Yoga, Tantra, religion, or skepticism ― for others, a simple curiosity to solve the mystery of themself.

The Approach

Rooted in Advaita-Vedanta, my approach is direct and intimate.The guidance is extremely simple and requires no actual effort.As such, it's especially effective for restless, intellectual minds that seek freedom through understanding.

What To Expect

During the session, we connect directly to the nature of our being, beyond thoughts and concepts.We then explore the mechanism through which we're deceived by the content of our experience ― and address the practical integration in daily life.The recognition usually takes 1-2 sessions. The integration takes years and doesn't actually stop.


Practicalities

Each session is 60-90 minutes and is held online or in Lisbon.The investment range is €100-€200.

A few spots are open each month for those who feel sincerely called but can't afford the price.

Get in touch: [email protected]

Common Questions

How is this different from therapy or coaching? +
This isn't therapy, nor is it meant to replace therapy. In these sessions, we directly experience who we are fundamentally on an existential level.
This work is not suitable for those with active mental health conditions, and those who feel overwhelming fear or resistance to existential questioning.
Do I need prior experience or knowledge? +
Absolutely not. This guidance is very simple and doesn't require prior knowledge or experience to be effective.
Why are the sessions offered for free? +
This understanding brought so much joy into my life, and I can't help but share it.
It's important to me that this is accessible to everyone, regardless of financial situation. I'm very grateful for any contributions.
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If you have an active mental health condition, I'm unfortunately not equipped to work with you.


My Story

I grew up in a culture where play and joy needed to be earned. Food before dessert, work before play.I learned to earn love by doing enough β€” and to separate joy from effort and discipline.This led to a persistent restlessness of chasing activities and pleasures for satisfaction.

It also felt empowering. If I worked hard, I could get whatever I wanted.So I went from being a shy, skinny teenager who failed at everything besides video games, to good grades, a shredded physique, and lots of social attention.I got addicted to success, so I went on chasing the next thing. I ended up travelling the world and making a lot of money.Eventually, I faced a lack of meaning and burned out from work.The hardest thing I had to face was the deep sense of existential loneliness I carried for 15 years.I then went on and tried everything I found β€” therapy, meditation, contemplation, workshops, retreats, and shadow work.

At some point, I realized nothing was wrong with me. And that the happiness I was seeking didn't exist in the future.I saw through the voices in my head telling me how I was failing, and how different I am from others β€” keeping me closed off to their love.I realized my suffering was only made of voices in my head that I believed in.The peace, joy, and sense of belonging I longed for were never missing.


Together in Presence

How would it feel to completely drop your guard and be held fully?

If you feel

β†’ Not understood by your closest people
β†’ Lonely even around good people
β†’ A longing to be seen and accepted fully

That's tough.I remember all the times I hid in a corner, trying my best to self-regulate.Secretly hoping someone would come and hold my sadness with a tight hug ― and the grief of not receiving that.

You don't have to go through this alone. It's time to put down what you're carrying.


What to expect

Each session is a deep conversation between two imperfect humans being themselves together.The biggest shifts in my life came in moments when someone was completely attuned to and accepting of where I was.Most people feel a sense of lightness and joy after processing deep sadness, grief, and anger that they've been unconsciously carrying for a long time.


Practicalities

Each session is 60-90 minutes and is held online or in Lisbon.The investment range is €100-€200.

A few spots are open each month for sincere seekers who can't afford the price.

Disclaimer

This isn't therapy, nor is it meant to replace it.As such, it's not suitable for those with active mental health conditions, and those with overwhelming resistance to feeling their deeper emotions.

Get in touch: [email protected]


My Story

I grew up in a culture where play and joy needed to be earned. Food before dessert, work before play.I learned to earn love by doing enough β€” and to separate joy from effort and discipline.This led to a persistent restlessness of chasing activities and pleasures for satisfaction.

It also felt empowering. If I worked hard, I could get whatever I wanted.So I went from being a shy, skinny teenager who failed at everything besides video games, to good grades, a shredded physique, and lots of social attention.I got addicted to success, so I went on chasing the next thing. I ended up travelling the world and making a lot of money.Eventually, I faced a lack of meaning and burned out from work.The hardest thing I had to face was the deep sense of existential loneliness I carried for 15 years.I then went on and tried everything I found β€” therapy, meditation, contemplation, workshops, retreats, and shadow work.

At some point, I realized nothing was wrong with me. And that the happiness I was seeking didn't exist in the future.I saw through the voices in my head telling me how I was failing, and how different I am from others β€” keeping me closed off to their love.I realized my suffering was only made of voices in my head that I believed in.The peace, joy, and sense of belonging I longed for were never missing.


Together in Life

What if you're looking for happiness in the wrong places?

If you feel like

β†’ Constantly seeking the next thing
β†’ Pushing through life without needing to
β†’ Unable to rest without guilt

It might be time to dig deeper.

Perhaps you've got most things in life right, and still feel like something is off.

Even with a clear calendar and a day off, something often makes it hard to sit still or enjoy a simple meal.

If it feels hard to enjoy yourself without constant stimulation, there's nothing wrong with you.

The way out is the way in.


What to expect

Each session is a deep conversation between two imperfect humans trying to figure things out.We'll explore what's alive and important for you β€” with no specific agenda or techniques.The biggest shifts in my life came in moments when someone was completely attuned to and accepting of where I was.Most people feel a sense of clarity and lightness after putting down a weight they've been carrying for a long time.


Practicalities

Each session is 60-90 minutes and is held online or in Lisbon.The investment range is €100-€200.

A few spots are open each month for those who feel a sincere pull but can't afford the price.

Get in touch: [email protected]

If you have an active mental health condition, I'm unfortunately not equipped to work with you.


My Story

I grew up in a culture where freedom of expression was seen as a sin.I learned to be quiet, to ask for permission to go to the bathroom, and not to laugh at church.I felt small and numbed out, and got hungry for answers.

Thankfully, I found some YouTubers whose words empowered me to question and challenge those around me.I went from being a shy, skinny teenager who failed at everything besides video games, to good grades, a shredded physique, and lots of social attention.I got addicted to success, so I went on chasing the next thing. I ended up travelling the world and making a lot of money.Eventually, I faced a lack of meaning and burned out from work.The hardest thing I had to face was the deep sense of loneliness I carried for 15 years.I then went on and tried everything β€” therapy, meditation, contemplation, workshops, retreats, and shadow work.

(and recently a brutal clowning course where I made people cringe hard)

At some point, I realized nothing was wrong with me. And that happiness couldn't be found in the future.I saw through the voices in my head telling me how I was failing, and the victimhood that kept me feeling different from others and closed off to their love.I realized my suffering was only made of thoughts I believed in.The peace, joy, and sense of belonging I longed for were never missing.


Together in Purpose

What if your best work comes from less effort and more presence?

If your work feels

β†’ A constant uphill battle
β†’ More effortful than joyful
β†’ Lacking the aliveness you once felt
I've been there too.I remember jumping between tabs, doing small, pointless things, pretending I was being productive.If you've lost the excitement of getting out of bed, you're likely carrying a weight that isn't serving you or your business.These are usually signs of a deeper misalignment β€” in what you're working on and how you work.


What we explore

1 - Ease over Effort

Presence at work is far more effective, energizing, and peaceful.We'll explore how you can get more done, enjoy work more, and with far less tension.

2 - Clarity over Overwhelm

A cluttered mind creates cluttered decisions. We'll surface the unfinished thoughts, unprocessed emotions, and beliefs that are subtly draining your energy.

3 - Leading from your Nature

We'll understand your motivation style, leadership archetype, and your strengths and weaknesses.We'll then create the conditions for you to succeed without changing who you are.

4 - Cultivating Support

We'll explore the tools to turn your clients and your team into your greatest supporters.


What to expect

We'll identify what energizes you in work, what drains you, and rewire the patterns and beliefs that are holding you back from better performance and greater ease.Most people leave feeling lighter and clearer β€” returning to work with more aliveness and confidence.


Practicalities

Each session is 60 minutes and is held online or in Lisbon.The investment range is €100-€200.

A few spots are open each month for those who feel a sincere pull but can't afford the price.

Get in touch: [email protected]


My Story

I co-founded and scaled Luxmery to $11M in under 2 years β€” awarded for the highest startup revenue in Cyprus.

At some point, deep in the journey of building this business, I realized what was really going on inside my head and body.I noticed a persistent, abusive voice in my head. Made up of a bunch of 'shoulds' and 'shouldnt's', and moral judgment on everything I did or didn't do.I realized I had normalized a chronic, subtly stressful state. I only realized it wasn't normal when I took time off and listened to my body's signals.This constant pressure on myself to 'get shit done' or 'do it better' was unconsciously consuming 80% of my energy.That's when I really understood what presence at work and true productivity really meant.I went from powering through long espresso and EDM-fueled sprints to a much quieter and joyful marathon that didn't feel like work.This new way of working required far less effort, got more of the right things done, and the company grew faster.


Together in Growth

What if you could grow faster by doing less?

This is for you if

β†’ You’re at $500k+ in revenue p/y
β†’ You're profitable or close to breakeven
β†’ You’re building a sellable business
β†’ You need a partner to help you scale


What we work on

1 - Unlocking Key Growth Blockers

We'll identify, strategize, and remove everything that's limiting the growth of your business.It's usually a mix of mental and practical blocks.

2 - Prioritizing With Confidence

We'll understand how effective prioritization works and build a simple system for it that works for you and your team.

3 - Building a System for Growth

We'll build a personalized system that allows your company to grow effortlessly without things falling apart again.A system that mostly works without your presence or effort.


Practicalities

Each session is 60 minutes and is held online.

Investment Options

- 20% profit share β€” ongoing support
- €500 per consultation β€” one-off

The first session is my gift to you :)

Get in touch: [email protected]


My Story

I co-founded and scaled Luxmery to $11M in under 2 years β€” awarded for the highest startup revenue in Cyprus.

At some point, growing the company felt like growing our problems, and I eventually burnt out.The business had stopped growing, and I couldn't see why.When everything we built started falling apart, I faced my existential fear of being seen as someone weak and as a failure.I finally worked up the courage to have the difficult conversations I was avoiding.I opened up vulnerably and asked for help. I took the time to listen to everything my team had felt and observed.My team's response surprised me. They stepped up and treated the business as if it were their own.We shrank in size but grew in profit.It turns out the biggest growth blockers are rarely tactical.


Together at Work

What if sincere commitment to each other made work more joyful and more effective?

If your team feels

β†’ Stressed out and behind on deadlines
β†’ Disappointed in their performance
β†’ Disconnected from each other
I've been there.I remember the team calls where nobody actively participated, waiting for it to end.It's a sign that they've lost touch with something that once mattered.


What we work on

1 - Leaders who listen

The most effective leaders are usually the best followers.We'll discover the tools that empower teams to run and grow the business almost on their own.

2 - People in the right seats

Every person has work that makes their energy flow or drains it.We map the temperament and strengths of each person, then create the conditions for them to thrive.

3 - Addressing unspoken truths

Most team friction lives in what isn't said.We create the container for people to name it, and what gets resolved there tends to change everything.

4 - Cultural alignment

We address the unhealthy dynamics that drain energy and slow the team down.Those who aren't a fit quit, and those who remain are fully alive in what they're doing.


Transformation happens through

Having honest conversations and looking at everything that is demanding attention.β†’ 1:1's with the founder
β†’ 1:1's with key team leaders
β†’ Connection circles with the entire team
β†’ Focus groups for unresolved tensions
Everyone's confusion, frustration, and conflict are all welcome.


Practicalities

3 or 6-month program, in person in Lisbon or online.The investment is €3,000 for 3 months or €6,000 for 6 months.The commitments are adjusted to your specific needs and can be outlined in the free consultation.Customized support at different capacities and prices is also available.Get in touch: [email protected]


My Story

I co-founded and scaled Luxmery to $11M in under 2 years β€” awarded for the highest startup revenue in Cyprus.

At some point, growing the company felt like growing our problems, and I eventually burnt out.When everything we built started falling apart, I faced my existential fear of being seen as someone weak and as a failure.I finally worked up the courage to have the difficult conversations I was avoiding.I opened up vulnerably and asked for help. I took the time to listen to everything my team had felt and observed.My team's response surprised me. They stepped up and treated the business as if it were their own.We shrank in size but grew in profit.I started feeling excited to get out of bed again.That's when I understood what becomes possible when people feel heard.